Commitment

 Good Day Readers! Another amazing week in the books, I have been enjoying the weather here. Hope you all have been enjoying the weather no matter where you are at. I have been saying recently that life is  movie and it has changed my whole perspective on how I take my days.

I enjoyed talking about discussion on dating, hanging out, courting, and forming solid relationships. All of this talk of people getting together, what if we take it to the next level. Being engaged. This step of moving to the next level is very crucial as it is preparing couples for marriage. 

What is engagement? A formal agreement between two parties to get married. Both persons agreeing to stay together and practice to be together forever. It is another level of commitment between the two people. 

Commitment, is a state or quality of being dedicated to a cause or activity. Commitment is a service, it is a action. It is not a feeling that you have for someone. It is actively committing to that person. For example, I ran Track & Field in High School it is a sport that requires you to use you r best effort to compete. There is a level of commitment that I have to bring, giving it my best to preform. Some people would see it as a expectation to be committed, which that can be justified. But when I would preform the best that I can to win a race, I have to commit the time and effort into it. Making commitment an action or service.

Couples have to give it their all for each other, not just 50/50 but 100/100, putting it all out on the court. They both have agree to serve, uplift, and commit to each other for their bond. It is easier said than done, so what should be done now to help prepare for better commitment in a relationship? Need to remember that yourself is being put into this relationship or level of commitment. Treat yourself how you want your spouse to be treated, by doing this it will open the doors for a lot of opportunities of growth. With that, you have the abilities you need to support your partner and to help them. Contributing to commitment is huge, it will determine how the engagement or marriage follows through. 

Commitment is hard. Why? Some of the activities or objects that you cherish will be going between the two of you. It is difficult to share and accommodate with each other. Money will have to be share. If couples have separate accounts, it will lead to more problems in the future. Finances, debt, purchases, will all be done between the two of you to help secure the future. Housing, couples will now have duties to do such as cleaning, house work, or who is taking kid duty for nights. The willingness between the two will greatly impact their marriage. 

What can come out of being committed to each other? First would have to be a stronger and healthier relationship when being committed. It will have more love, transparency, connection, devotion, and mutual respect for the two lovers. The reason for more love is that the both of persons recognize that they are willing to be their for each other, help and support through tough times. Transparency is key, because it makes it easier to sleep at night. Allowing a transparent relationship being trust worthy to each other and having a honest opinion or truth to be present. The connection will become more deeply rooted and have open space for them to keep loving each other. Devotion is important, how you two are spending time together, creating an atmosphere for the two of them. And as for mutual respect, having the respect that you need to help build off that commitment and create new opportunities to serve. It is what can make a bond even stronger and it shows as an example to others.

Thank you everyone for reading my thoughts. Sorry if it is all over the place, still practicing on making my thoughts more clear. But without commitment then the relationship can not further grow. I hope everyone can enjoy a good and safe week. Stay Fresh!